How to Achieve an Amicable Divorce: Answers to Your Top Questions

Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging process, but it doesn’t always have to be contentious. For couples seeking an amicable separation, sharing a lawyer can be a great option. In this blog post, we’ll address some of the top questions you may have about amicable divorce and how sharing a lawyer can facilitate a smoother transition. 

“Can we really have an amicable divorce?” 

This is one of the most common questions individuals considering divorce ask themselves. The answer is yes, it’s possible. While every situation is unique, approaching the process with open communication and a willingness to cooperate can lay the foundation for an amicable divorce. Sharing a lawyer who specialises in advising couples together can further facilitate this process by promoting mutual understanding and compromise. 

“How does sharing a lawyer work?” 

Sharing a lawyer involves both parties working with a single barrister or solicitor who advises them both, together, as to how a Family Judge would view their case. This approach can lead to significant cost savings and a more amicable resolution compared to traditional litigation. 

“What are the benefits of an amicable divorce?” 

Achieving an amicable divorce has numerous advantages, including reduced stress and conflict, faster resolution times, lower legal fees, and more control over the outcome. By focusing on cooperation rather than confrontation, couples can preserve their dignity and prioritise their children’s well-being during this challenging time. 

“Will sharing a lawyer favour one party over the other?” 

It’s natural to have concerns about bias when considering shared legal representation. However, the role of the lawyer is to advise on what a Judge would consider fair and to ensure that both parties’ needs are met. The lawyer acts as a neutral party, providing legal advice without taking sides. This approach fosters transparency and trust between the couple, leading to a more equitable outcome. 

“What if we can’t agree on certain issues?” 

Disagreements are common in divorce proceedings, but they don’t have to derail the process entirely. In One Couple One Lawyer divorce, the lawyer helps couples navigate areas of contention by advising how a Judge would view their perspectives. If necessary, additional professionals such as pensions or financial advisors can be brought in to assist with specific issues, ensuring that both parties’ concerns are addressed comprehensively. 

Achieving an amicable divorce is not only possible but also beneficial for all parties involved. By choosing to share a lawyer and approach the process collaboratively, couples can minimise conflict, expedite resolution, and lay the groundwork for a positive co-parenting relationship moving forward. If you’re considering divorce and seeking a peaceful separation, sharing a lawyer may be the right choice for you. 


If you have more questions about this topic or any other legal issues arising on divorce or separation, please do get in touch as we are always happy to help. You can call us on 0203 488 4475 or email contact@thedivorcesurgery.co.uk.


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