Decision support

What If We Don't Agree?

Addresses: We don't agree on everything — does that rule this out?

Disagreeing on some points doesn't rule out joint legal advice — the process is designed to identify where you're aligned and work through the rest. If disagreement reflects a deeper conflict of interest, you'll be referred to separate solicitors instead.

Not agreeing on everything at the outset is normal, not a disqualifier. Most couples starting joint advice have some unresolved points — that’s often exactly why they’re seeking advice in the first place.

The process is built to surface where you’re already aligned and work through the rest with proper legal input. What it isn’t built for is genuine conflict: if disagreement reflects a deeper issue — concealed assets, coercion, safety — that’s when joint advice stops being appropriate, and you’d be referred toward separate solicitors instead.

Related: Is This Right For Us?

Frequently Asked Questions

Does disagreeing on one issue mean we can't use joint advice at all?

No. Most couples don't agree on everything at the start — the process is built to work through specific disagreements, not to require full agreement upfront.

At what point would we be told to get separate solicitors instead?

If the disagreement reveals a genuine conflict of interest — for example, one of you concealing assets or the discussion becoming unsafe — joint advice stops and separate representation is recommended. [TODO: confirm exact referral process wording.]

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