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The financial disclosure checklist
Financial disclosure means exchanging a clear picture of assets, debts, income and pensions so both of you—and any adviser—can assess a fair settlement. Use this checklist to gather property, bank, pension and income evidence before a joint Advice Session or mediation.
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Last reviewed: 1 March 2026
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Telling the children, together
Telling children about separation works best when both parents share a simple, age-appropriate message, avoid blame, and agree living arrangements before the conversation. Children need reassurance that they are loved and that the adults will keep conflict away from them.
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Last reviewed: 1 March 2026
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Know your options on divorce
Divorce options range from DIY applications and mediation to one shared barrister or two solicitors. The right path depends on how much you agree and how complex your finances are. Clear options early prevent expensive defaults into adversarial correspondence.
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Last reviewed: 1 March 2026
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1 In 5 Couples Who End Up In Court Should Not Be There
President of the Family Division on Radio 4: One in five couples who end up in court should not be … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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4 Essential Strategies for Navigating an Amicable Divorce While Prioritising Emotional Well-being
Divorce is often portrayed as a contentious and painful process, but it doesn’t have to be. For couples in the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2024
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5 Essential Tips for Successful Co-Parenting During and After Divorce
Co-parenting after divorce can be challenging, but with the right strategies and mindset, it’s possible to create a positive and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 2 August 2024
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5 Key Strategies for Achieving an Amicable Divorce
Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging chapter in anyone’s life. However, it doesn’t always have to be filled with hostility and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 April 2024
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5 Steps to a Stress-Free Divorce Process
Divorce is often seen as emotionally overwhelming. But with the right mindset and tools, a stress-free divorce process is entirely … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 June 2025
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5 Strategies to Avoid Adversarial Court Proceedings in Divorce
Divorce is undeniably one of life’s most challenging transitions. Amidst the emotional turmoil, the last thing anyone wants is a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 June 2024
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5 Tips For A Healthy Separation
In any separation, frame of mind matters more than anything. It is the key to dealing with the many emotions … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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5 Tips For Dating Through Divorce
Dating and divorce aren’t words you often see in the same sentence. But the reality is that they often come … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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5 Tips On Divorce From A Psychological Perspective: Finding Light At The End Of The Tunnel
Philippa Richardson, ex-lawyer, divorcee and Founder of The Circle Line, explores the process of divorce from a psychological perspective. Never … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 September 2021
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5 Tips On How To Heal After Divorce
Life after divorce is certainly different, and if the event is still fresh it might feel overwhelming at first. But … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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5 Top Tips At The Beginning Of A Relationship Breakdown
At The Divorce Surgery we encourage all our couples to access help from the right experts at the right time. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 September 2021
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6 Tips For A Successful Co-Parenting Christmas
One of the most challenging events following a divorce is the first co-parenting Christmas. But while it will be a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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6 Tips To Help Your Child When You Are Going Through A Divorce
Dealing with divorce is a difficult time for everyone, but when children are involved, there is the additional burden of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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63% Of Divorcing Couples Want Early Legal Advice - Resolution
A Resolution-commissioned YouGov survey of more than 1,000 divorcees found that 41% of those who divorced within the last five … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 19 July 2021
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64% Of Lawyers Believe Access To Justice Has Worsened Over The Last Decade
In a new survey of solicitors, commissioned by the Law Society, 64% of surveyed solicitors said overall access to justice … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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80,000 Children Caught Up In The Family Courts System
Recent Family Court statistics reveal that there are currently more than 80,000 children caught up in private family law proceedings. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 August 2023
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A Child’s Right To Matter: New Report Launched In Parliament
Last week the Family Solutions Group launched a new report called ‘A Child’s Right to Matter’. The event was hosted … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 November 2023
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A Guide to Achieving an Amicable Divorce: Sharing a Lawyer
Divorce is never easy, but it doesn’t have to be acrimonious either. For couples seeking to part ways amicably, sharing … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 April 2024
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A New Start Often Means A New Home
Going through a separation or divorce presents a unique set of challenges. Not only are you dealing with the re-organisation … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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A Sobering Reminder Of The Need To Keep Divorce Costs Under Control
Are your divorce legal fees getting out of control? We can help! This case is a horrible reminder of the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 19 July 2021
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Adele, Reborn: Vogue Interview October 2021
It’s so refreshing when people in the public eye speak openly about their experience of divorce. Speaking to American Vogue … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 11 October 2021
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AI in Family Law
Always a pleasure to contribute to Tatler’s Experts’ Corner, this time on AI in family law. Our conclusion? AI has much … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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AI Innovation Award Winners
We are absolutely thrilled to say that our new Form E tool won the AI Innovation award at the Law.com International Legal … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 May 2023
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All You Need to Know about the Financial Cost of Getting Divorced
Everyone knows that divorce is expensive, and particularly the financial aspects of divorce. The chances are that one of you … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 February 2022
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Amicable Divorce UK Q&A
A short Q&A for those looking to divorce amicably in the UK What Does Amicable Divorce Mean? An amicable divorce … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 August 2023
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Ampla Finance / YouGov Survey On UK Divorce: How Couples Found The Process & How They Were Served
Ampla Finance has conducted a fascinating survey through YouGov, assisted by Nigel Shepherd, canvassing a sample of 1,005 divorced UK … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 28 July 2021
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An Alternative to Divorce Mediation
If you’re looking for an alternative to divorce mediation, you’re not alone. Mediation is a valuable option for many … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 July 2026
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Animated Parenting Tips For Struggling Households
King’s College London, Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust and Maudsley Charity have worked together to create a series of films to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 28 July 2021
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Another family Court Case, Another Family Judge Despairing About Legal Costs
We’re conscious that we regularly post about the need for legal costs to be made proportionate to the assets and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 December 2022
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Another Reminder Of The Crucial Importance Of Keeping Legal Fees In Check
The High Courts often deal with very wealthy families, where the available assets far outstrip the needs of the couple. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 December 2021
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Are You Allowed To Help Yourself?
Are you allowed to help yourself to your spouse’s financial information when you divorce? Probably not, but it depends… Be … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 June 2023
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Are Your Friends A Help Or A Hindrance?
In times of crisis, we turn to our friends. Divorce, whether you instigated it or not, is a massive life … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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Artificial intelligence in the Family Justice System
The Nuffield Family Justice Observatory has published a briefing paper which is intended to prompt discussion and reflection about how … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 July 2024
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Avoiding the Common Pitfall: The Mistake of Rushing Amicable Divorce
Amicable divorce, often perceived as an elusive concept, is a route many divorcing couples aim to take. The desire to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 March 2024
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Avoiding unnecessary court battles has far-reaching benefits for splitting couples
Christopher Hames QC writes in The Times urging family lawyers to promote more alternatives to adversarial litigation, and endorsing The … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 September 2021
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Backlog Of More Than 110,000 Cases For The Family Courts
We knew the backlog was bad… but… The Law Society has issued a press release responding to new stats published … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 November 2022
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BBC One’s The Split: A Fair Reflection of Divorce?
The Split, a BBC One drama which follows the personal and legal challenges faced by the Defoes (a family of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 July 2020
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Biggest ever consultation with children in England launched by the Children’s Commissioner
On 19 April Dame Rachel de Souza, Children’s Commissioner for England, launched ‘The Big Ask’, the biggest ever consultation with … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 28 July 2021
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Blended Families…Let’s Celebrate Them!
There are more and more blended families out there showing us all how you can navigate divorce and remain a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 November 2023
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Breaking The Stigma: The Art Of Untying The Knot
Separating, or contemplating divorce, can feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. But know this: it … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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Cafcass Launch An Animated Video, ‘Taking Me Seriously: Letting You Know How We Help’
Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) has collaborated with The Family Justice Young People’s Board (FJYPB) to launch … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 July 2023
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Cafcass Launches New Parenting Course
Planning Together for Children, a programme created by the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (Cafcass), has been … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 May 2023
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Cafcass Positive co-Parenting Programme extended
Cafcass has launched its Positive co-Parenting Programme (CPPP) after a successful two-year pilot. CPPP is a 12-week programme for families … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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Cafcass Publishes “Top Tips” For Parents
The tips have been published as part of Cafcass’ ambition to listen more closely to what families say about their … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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Cafcass Publishes New Tips From Its Family Forum For Parents Involved In The Family Court
Cafcass has published some updated advice for parents involved in family court proceedings. The ‘top tips’ have been written by … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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Cafcass Release Updated Covid Guidance
Cafcass has released updated Covid guidance as to the circumstances in which their professionals will be attending Family Courts in … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 28 July 2021
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Calling All Employers… Why It’s Time To Intrude On Private Grief
We have been pointing out in these pages for some time how divorce in the workplace remains a grossly underacknowledged … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 August 2021
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Can A Divorcing Couple Share One Lawyer?
Traditionally, when a marriage or civil partnership breaks down, each side instructs a lawyer to represent their interests when dividing … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 December 2023
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Can an Uncontested Divorce Become Contested?
Many people ask, can an uncontested divorce become contested later on? The short answer is yes. While uncontested divorces, now … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 July 2025
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Can You Be Friends With An Ex-Partner?
Humans are complex creatures. Relationships don’t have clean endings. Often, the ending of an intimate relationship means the start of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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Can You Get Divorced While Still Living Together?
Yes, you can. Many people assume that once they have decided to separate, one person has to move out … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 April 2026
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Can You Have a Good Divorce?
Yes! And don’t be put off by the word ‘good’ in this context, the divorce process can be a tough … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 May 2023
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Can You Have a Quickie Divorce?
Newspapers love talking about ‘quickie’ divorces. We hear of celebs who seem to fast-track the system and get a divorce … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 November 2023
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Can You Use a Joint Divorce Lawyer?
If you’re looking for a joint divorce lawyer, you’re probably hoping to keep your divorce as straightforward and constructive … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 July 2026
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Can You Use The Same Lawyer In A Divorce?
OK, so this is a question that we hope we will soon never have to ask again - because the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 January 2024
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Changing Your Child’s Name
Divorce can be a catalyst to revert to your maiden name. But what does that mean for your children? What … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Child Maintenance Calculations And The CMS
When parents separate, one of the first issues they must address is how they will provide financially for their children … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 July 2020
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Child Maintenance Service Launch ‘Get Help Arranging Child Maintenance’
In May the Child Maintenance Service launched ‘Get help arranging child maintenance’, a new online service which supports separated parents … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 29 June 2022
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Child Maintenance Service To Be The Subject Of Judicial Review
There have been long-running concerns about the operation of the Child Maintenance Service (CMS), particularly when it comes to enforcing … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 March 2023
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Children’s Commissioner publishes ‘Big Ambition for Families’
The Children’s Commissioner has published her ‘Big Ambition for Families’ as part of the wider ‘Big Ambition’ Consultation exercise. In … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 May 2024
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Children’s Commissioner Reports On Initial Findings Of The Family Review
The Children’s Commissioner for England, Dame Rachel de Souza, has published Part 1 of the Family Review. As part of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 19 October 2022
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Children’s Views Matter
Involving children in decisions which affect them is encouraged by child professionals and the courts. But that’s NOT the same … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 July 2023
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Choosing A School
Schooling choices are challenging at the best of times. Analysing catchment areas, navigating the 11+ and working out which school … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Co-Founder Speaks To Tatler About Navigating The Complexities Of Blended Families
Our co-founder Samantha Woodham speaks to Tatler about navigating the complexities of blended families… Divorce is commonplace, and so are blended families, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2023
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Co-Founders Samantha and Harry recognised in 2024 Spear’s Legal Indices
It’s always nice to be recognised, so we’re pleased to say that both our co-founders Harry and Sam have been … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 June 2024
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Co-Parenting During Divorce: Navigating the Challenges for the Sake of Your Children
Divorce can be a challenging time for the entire family, especially for children. Amidst the emotional turmoil and legal complexities, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 18 December 2023
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Cohabitation reform and the rise in cohabiting couples
New figures on cohabiting couples are adding fresh pressure for cohabitation reform in England and Wales. The latest … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 November 2025
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Cohabiting Couples & Their Children To Benefit From Changes To Bereavement Benefit Rules
The Department for Work and Pensions has announced plans to extend bereavement support to cohabiting couples with children. At present, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 August 2021
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Coronavirus: Separated Families & Contact with Children in Care FAQs (UK)
This House of Commons Library briefing provides information in response to some key questions regarding the impact of the coronavirus … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 September 2021
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Couple Spends £2.3m In Legal Fees When Net Assets Only £1.76m
A High Court Judge decreed that the only beneficiaries in Mr and Mrs Crowther’s “nihilistic” divorce were their lawyers, with … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 November 2021
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Court Of Appeal Judgment Provides Further Clarity On Child Arrangements Where One Parent Is In Quarantine
Since March, many separating parents have struggled with understanding what limits should, or should not, be put on the movement … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 September 2021
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Courts and Tribunals Judiciary - The Road Ahead
The President of the Family Division has published The Road Ahead, emphasising that Covid restrictions will be in place in … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 August 2021
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Covid-19 Update (17th March 2020)
During these unprecedented times, the health and wellbeing of our clients, barristers, staff and society at large is our absolute … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 March 2020
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Creating a Co-Parenting Agreement for Different Stages of Childhood
When navigating an amicable divorce, creating a flexible co-parenting plan is essential. As children grow, their needs, schedules, and emotional … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 November 2024
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Data Shows Marriage Is On The Decline And A Need For Law Reform On Cohabiting Couples
Data released by the Office for National Statistics (ONS) shows marriage is on the decline, and emphasises the need for … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 March 2023
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Dealing With Divorce & Anxiety
Regardless of whether you are going through the most amicable divorce possible or not, you will likely experience a rollercoaster … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Debunking the Myth of Amicable Divorce: Why Sharing a Lawyer Could Be the Solution You Didn’t Know You Needed
When it comes to divorce, the word “amicable” might not be the first thing that comes to mind for many … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 March 2024
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Debunking the Myth of Perfect Co-Parenting: Embracing Imperfection for Success
In the realm of divorce and co-parenting, there exists a pervasive myth that successful co-parenting means achieving a state of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 July 2024
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Debunking the Myth: Sharing a Lawyer in Divorce Doesn’t Mean Sacrificing Fairness
When embarking on the journey of divorce, many couples in the UK strive for an amicable resolution, hoping to part … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2024
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Debunking the Myth: You Need to Go to Court to Get a Fair Divorce
In the realm of divorce, one prevailing myth holds significant sway: the belief that a fair divorce settlement can only … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 August 2024
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Dissolving A Civil Partnership
In the same way that a married couple can get a divorce, two people in a civil partnership can also … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 December 2021
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Divorce & Co-parenting In The Age Of Coronavirus
Thanks to coronavirus, parents are being asked to make significant changes to the way that their family functions. With children … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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Divorce At Work
It’s often said that it takes at least a year to recover from a close bereavement, but recovery from a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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Divorce Case Criticised For “Unprincipled” Financial Remedy Proceedings
Divorce case criticised for “unprincipled” financial remedy proceedings in which £200,000 spent on legal fees. A recent divorce case which … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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Divorce Court Cases Are on the Rise - Why It Matters
Recent data shows a sharp rise in divorce court cases, with more separating couples turning to litigation to resolve financial … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 19 June 2025
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Divorce Delays Vs. Working To Your Timetable
A recent article in The Telegraph has highlighted that separating couples are facing delays of up to 18 months due … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 March 2021
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Divorce Doesn’t Mean You Have Bad Judgement
A fear on divorce which can really consume people is the idea that they should have seen the divorce coming, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Divorce Doesn’t Need To Be A Battle
Why you really do need to think about getting divorced in a non-adversarial way… Divorce has a terrible reputation. Say … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 March 2021
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Divorce Etiquette: Understanding The Complexities & Social Dynamics
Divorce etiquette refers to the unwritten rules and guidelines that help individuals navigate divorce, both during after the separation process. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 December 2023
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Divorce Lawyers Of The Year - London’ for 2022
Thank you Acquisition International Magazine for recognising us as ‘Divorce Lawyers of the Year - London’ for 2022. We are very proud to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 November 2022
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Divorce Lawyers of the Year 2023
We are delighted to have won in the category ‘Divorce Lawyers of the Year 2023 - London’ at the Worldwide … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 July 2023
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Divorce Litigation Becoming Unaffordable For All But The Rich, Warns High Court Judge
Financial remedy litigation seems to be “fast heading for Ritz Hotel status - so expensive that it is only accessible … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 23 June 2022
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Divorce Process Could Be Cut From 1 Year To 2 Months
Harry Gates, Co-Founder of The Divorce Surgery, is quoted today in Your Money about a new pilot to use IT … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 August 2023
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Divorce Statistics and Trends in the UK (Updated Nov 2023)
Divorce reflects broader societal trends and shifts. An analysis of recent divorce data in the UK sheds light on these … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 November 2023
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Divorcing Well
‘Divorcing well’ is increasingly the key aim of couples facing separation. Celebrities such Glennon Doyle and Gwyneth Paltrow have helped … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 May 2024
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DIY Divorce For 60% Of Couples Who Take Their Dispute To Court
Research for The Times has shown that nearly 60% of separating couples in the Family Courts are without legal representation. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 August 2021
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Do All Divorce Cases Go To Court?
Divorce is a legal process… But handled right there should be no need at all to find yourself anywhere near … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 December 2023
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Do I Have To Go To Court To Get A Divorce?
In short, no. The court is an integral part of the process but you do not have to attend at … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 July 2021
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Do You Ever ‘Check Out’ Of Your Divorce?
If not, you should… Think of your divorce as a work project… The more it consumes you, the harder it … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 23 February 2023
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Do You Need a Lawyer for Divorce?
If you’re preparing for divorce, you might be wondering: Do I really need a lawyer for an uncontested divorce? After … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 July 2025
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Do You Need Legal Advice On Divorce?
The law has been developed over centuries to guarantee your rights upon divorce. So, you should be highly suspicious of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2023
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Do You See Divorce As A Shared Problem?
The real difficulty with divorce is that you start from a place of emotional distance. You may be reeling from … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Do You Think Family Judges Want You To Come To Court Or Stay Away?
Ask any family lawyer if they’d want to go to court to resolve the arrangements for their family and you’ll … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Does It Matter If My Name Is On My Child’s Birth Certificate?
From a legal perspective, it can do, Yes… If you and your fellow co-parent were not married or in a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 October 2023
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Domestic Abuse Toolkit for Employers
The Insurance Charities has unveiled an updated Domestic Abuse Toolkit for Employers. The charity funded the original Toolkit and this … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 August 2021
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Don’t Know Where To Start With Your Finances?
We can help you find out the basics, so you can decide what help you will need. Most couples who … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2023
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East Midlands Courts brings in new system to keep more cases out of court
The East Midlands Court is bringing in a new case management system for private children cases. The changes include: Resolving … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 May 2024
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East Midlands Courts brings in new system to keep more cases out of court
The East Midlands Court is bringing in a new case management system for private children cases. The changes include: Resolving … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 June 2024
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Effective Co-parenting Through Lockdown & Beyond
Family Lives is a brilliant charity which supports parents in dealing with the changes that are a constant part of family … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 March 2021
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Emotionally Charged: Costs On Divorce & Dissolution
When the no-fault divorce legislation is implemented next April, it will mean that divorcing couples can now jointly apply to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 11 November 2021
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Employers Watch: Supporting Employees During Divorce
We recently published a blog post on ‘How Employers Can Help Employees Going Through Divorce’, in which we reported some … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 August 2021
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Endorsement for The Divorce Surgery by Sir James Munby
The former President of the Family Division, Sir James Munby’s, endorsement of our service in the most recent edition of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 September 2021
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Family Court Delays See Children Waiting Almost a Year to Finalise Living Arrangements
The latest data published by the Ministry of Justice shows that children involved in private law cases are now waiting … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 July 2023
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Family Court Proceedings Are Always Held In Private, Right?
People are often shocked to discover that privacy is not guaranteed to litigants in the Family Court. There is a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 July 2023
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Family Court System Still Mired With Delays
The latest court statistics paint a worrying picture: Private children’s law cases - where families ask the court to resolve … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Family Courts Remain Paralysed By Delays As Law Society Calls For Urgent Action
New data from HM Courts & Tribunals Service (HMCTS) has once again highlighted the devastating delays and backlogs that continue … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 December 2022
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Family Hubs - Providing A Single ‘Early Help Front Door’ For Families
‘While the majority of families want to solve their own private and personal problems, people still need help to help … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 May 2022
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Family Innovator Finalist at the British Family Law Awards
What a boost to December to hear that to hear we have been shortlisted for Family Innovator of the Year … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 December 2023
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Family Judge urges couples to stay away from Court
All professionals involved in Family Justice believe that Family Courts should be the absolute last resort for separating couples and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 August 2021
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Family Justice Board To Promote Non-adversarial Problem Solving
The Family Justice Board has issued a statement and supporting documents setting out its priorities for Family Justice for the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2021
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Family Justice Council - 16th Annual Debate
The Family Justice Council is holding its 16th Annual Debate and panel discussion on Thursday 7th December 2023, from 5.30pm … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 November 2023
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Family Justice Young People’s Board
The Family Justice Young People’s Board (FJYPB) is a group of over 50 children and young people aged between 7 … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2021
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Family Law - Looking Ahead to 2021
We hope 2021 heralds a better year for us all. In terms of Family Law, our co-founder Samantha Woodham was … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 October 2021
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Family Law Awards 2019 Winners
Our founders Samantha and Harry attended the Family Law Awards last night and were delighted to take home the award … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 February 2020
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Family Loans: Should You Borrow From Family During A Divorce?
The issue of ‘family loans’ comes up time and again in the cases we see. Money is often very tight … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 October 2023
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Family Solutions Group Report Launch
The latest Family Solutions Group report puts an important issue back into focus: how we can better support … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 March 2026
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Feeling Stuck In Court Proceedings?
Many people don’t realise that family judges can adjourn cases if you ask them to, so you can have a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2023
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Filling In A Form E
The majority of our work at The Divorce Surgery involves assisting couples with negotiating a fair and amicable settlement of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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Financial Disclosure & The Divorce Surgery
The majority of our work at The Divorce Surgery involves assisting couples with negotiating a fair and amicable settlement of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 March 2021
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Financial Planning for Divorce in Midlife
Financial planning for divorce can feel harder in midlife. Many couples need to think about more than dividing … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 July 2026
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Finding Co-Parenting Hard?
If you’re finding co-parenting hard, that’s because it is hard. Parenting is hard. Human relationships always have ups and downs, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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First Anniversary Of No Fault Divorce
Today is the first anniversary of No Fault Divorce. It was a landmark moment ending the need for separating couples to … Read More
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First Christmas As Separated Parents?
It’s normal to find it hard, it’s normal to find it overwhelming, the more you can plan and prepare, the … Read More
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Four in ten divorces held back due to financial concerns and worries about children
A recent research study by Investec Wealth & Investment has found that as many as 40% of married people in … Read More
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Freshfields Bruckhaus Deringer profiles our CEO & One Couple One Lawyer service
Our CEO, Samantha Woodham, qualified as a solicitor at magic circle law firm Freshfields before converting to the Bar 13 … Read More
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Friendly Divorces On The Rise In The UK: A YouGov Poll’s Insight
In recent years, the landscape of divorce in the United Kingdom has undergone a significant transformation. A recent YouGov poll, … Read More
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Further Awards for The Divorce Surgery!
We have won a Gold Award in the International CSR Excellence Awards! Corporate Social Responsibility is gaining increasing and deserved … Read More
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Further increase in numbers of children whose parents end up in Court
At the @CouplesAPPG meeting on family hubs and relationship support, @SamanthaJCallan highlighted the recent statistics from Cafcass which are cause … Read More
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Further Nuffield Research On The Impact Of Family Court Proceedings On Children
The family court has a role in resolving disputes between separating parents over child arrangements—known as private law. More than … Read More
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Further research highlights the damaging impact of conflict on children
Professor Gordon Harold and Dr Ruth Sellers have published some hard-hitting research on the impact of inter-parental conflict and family … Read More
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Further Research Shows Damaging Impact Of Court Proceedings On Children’s Mental Health
Again and again research is showing the damaging impact of Family Court proceedings on the children involved. It’s easy just … Read More
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Getting divorced under 35?
Co-Founder of The Divorce Surgery, Samantha Woodham, writes today in Female First with some tips for young couples facing divorce. … Read More
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Getting Divorced? Don’t Know Where To Start
Deciding to separate is for most people a momentous decision. But having taken the plunge, what are the practical steps … Read More
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Giselle Bündchen And Tom Brady Announce Amicable Divorce
Whether we like it or not, the relationships of those in the public eye remain heavily scrutinised and reported on … Read More
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Good And Bad Delays On Divorce
Taking your time is fine. It isn’t a delay itself which is a problem, it’s being stuck in prolonged conflict … Read More
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Good Divorce Week
Good Divorce Week is a Resolution campaign that highlights what a constructive, child-focused separation can look like. At … Read More
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Good Divorce Week 2025: Why Every Week Is Good Divorce Week At The Divorce Surgery
Good Divorce Week 2025 is a Resolution campaign that shines a spotlight on what a constructive, child-focused separation … Read More
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Good Divorce Week: Day 1 - FAIR
As part of Good Divorce Week, we’re exploring what we think makes a good divorce. Our first theme is … Read More
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Good Divorce Week: Day 2 - SAFE
On Good Divorce Week, it’s so important to remember that not all of us can choose to have a … Read More
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Good Divorce Week: Day 3 - ON BUDGET
As part of Good Divorce Week, we’re looking at how staying on budget can help couples stay in control. … Read More
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Good Divorce Week: Day 4 - CONFLICT FREE
Divorce is a life change. But unlike other life changes, it may not be your choice. Separating will trigger … Read More
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Good Divorce Week: Day 5 - KIND
It’s always nice to end on a positive, particularly on a Friday! Times of great adversity demand the biggest … Read More
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Government Rejects Calls For Reform Of Cohabitation Law
The government has rejected almost all proposals for cohabitation law reform put forward in the Women and Equalities Committee’s recent … Read More
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Grounds For Divorce: A Handy Guide
Although campaigners have been working hard to reform the divorce law in England and Wales for some time now, no-fault … Read More
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Harper’s Bazaar Interviews Our Co-Founders Asking ‘Can You Have A Good Divorce?’
It’s always such a joy when the focus of an article about divorce is how to do it well. The … Read More
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Harry Gates & Samantha Woodham Recognised By The Legal 500
The Legal 500 recognises our co-founders Harry Gates and Samantha Woodham once again! Congratulations to all those listed… About The … Read More
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Harry Gates in GQ Magazine: 5 Key Indicators You’re Ready To End Your Relationship
Co-founder of The Divorce Surgery, Harry Gates, really enjoyed talking to GQ Magazine about what to do when a relationship reaches its sell-by … Read More
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Harvard Study Of Adult Development
The Harvard Study of Adult Development and it’s focus on the fact that healthy relationships (and therefore healthy endings to … Read More
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Heads Above The Parapet: How Can We Improve Race Equality At The Bar?
In March 2018 the Bar Standards Board hosted an event called: Heads Above the Parapet: How can we improve Race … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2021
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Helena Bonham Carter: ‘Divorce is cruel. But some parts are to be recommended’
It is so refreshing when people in the public eye speak frankly about divorce. In her own, inimitable way, Helena … Read More
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Help! We Can’t Agree On Our Summer Holiday Plans
It is not unusual for parents to disagree about where and for how long their children should spend on holiday … Read More
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Hibernate From Divorce Over Christmas
Unless it’s a genuine emergency, give yourselves a break from lawyers, divorce and everything that goes with it. You can … Read More
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High Court Judge says ‘steps must be taken’ to curb legal fees on divorce after couple’s projected legal bills could hit £8m
Following a recent divorce case Mr Justice Mostyn has advocated for greater costs control in family cases. In Xanthopoulos v … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 May 2022
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How Can Sharing a Divorce Lawyer Keep You Out of Court?
In the realm of divorce, the prospect of lengthy court battles can be daunting and emotionally taxing. However, there’s another … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 June 2024
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How Can We Do What Solicitors & Mediators Can’t? (& Why Do We Do It?)
Options are great. When it comes to restructuring your family unit after divorce or separation, and dividing up your finances, … Read More
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How Do I Cope With Divorce Stress?
Here are some top tips: 1. Please know that it is completely normal to find divorce stressful. It is stressful. … Read More
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How Do We Get Divorced?
It can be daunting knowing where to start… so we have done the hard work for you! It’s been more … Read More
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How Do We Make Our Financial Deal Legally Binding?
If you are agreed you want to resolve your finances once and for all, then the best way forward is … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 June 2023
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How Do We Stop Divorce Costs Breaking The Bank?
It’s simple… share a lawyer wherever possible, and insist on fixed fees before you start. It hardly needs to be … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 February 2023
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How Do You Know Each Side Is Being Honest On Divorce?
Each of you must give a financial disclosure, It must be full, frank and clear. Having confidence in each other’s … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 December 2023
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How Do You Tell Your Friends You Are Getting Divorced?
It sounds like such a simple question. But the way you tell your friends, family and colleagues that you are … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2021
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How Does A Judge Decide Who Gets What In A Divorce?
The question most frequently asked by divorcing couples is what would be a fair settlement of our financial situation on … Read More
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How Does Furlough Or Redundancy Affect Maintenance?
Many readers will be surveying the gloomy economic outlook with trepidation over the summer. Job losses are forecast to rise sharply … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 August 2021
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How Does The Court Make Sure Financial Needs Are Met After Divorce?
For most people, this will be the fundamental question - two households are more expensive than one, so how will … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 December 2023
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How Employers Can Deal With The Impact Of Divorce In The Workplace
According to the Office for National Statistics, there were more than 100,000 divorces of opposite-sex couples in 2019. That equates … Read More
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How Employers Can Support Employees Going Through Divorce?
Divorce is a reality which affects many couples. 42% of marriages end in divorce. But some employers do not engage … Read More
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How far can a judge dictate the sharing of assets when a company is involved?
The pursuit of a fair division when companies are involved can be particularly challenging. This is a great article by … Read More
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How Long Do Court Proceedings About Finances Last
A recent report said that the Family Court are ‘in crisis’, reflecting the ever-increasing length of time it is taking … Read More
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How Long Does A Divorce Take
It depends on how you approach it… The minimum is 6 months, but if you end up in court you’re … Read More
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How Long Does A Divorce Take?
When a marriage breaks down, starting the divorce process can be daunting. It can seem like there is a lot … Read More
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How Many Parents End Up In Court Over The Arrangements For Their Children?
The 38% statistic came from a study by the Nuffield Family Justice Observatory in 2019. And it caused a massive … Read More
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How Often Have You Heard The Term ‘Broken Family’?
If you break something it can be repaired, but it will never be ‘perfect’ again. Which is why the term … Read More
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How Standish v Standish Could Redefine Pre-Acquired Wealth Divorce
The legal world is watching closely as we await the Supreme Court’s ruling in Standish v Standish. This case could … Read More
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How The Wealthy Untie The Knot: No-Fault Divorces Rise Among UHNWs
As we approach Divorce Day next week, it’s fantastic to see so many publications talking about divorcing amicably, rather than … Read More
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How to Achieve an Amicable Divorce: Answers to Your Top Questions
Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging process, but it doesn’t always have to be contentious. For couples seeking an amicable separation, … Read More
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How To De-Escalate Conflict During Divorce?
While divorce is a difficult and emotional experience for all involved, it’s also, sadly, a rather common occurrence. Indeed, according … Read More
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How To Deal With A Stressful Divorce
Divorce can trigger a range of emotions, especially if the situation has taken you somewhat by surprise. But by keeping … Read More
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How To Divorce Better To Establish A Successful Co-parenting & Family Dynamic Going Forward
We have all heard the horror stories of a bad divorce - the battle, betrayal, pain, blame and shame; the … Read More
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How To Get Through A Divorce Amicably: 4 Top Tips
Many couples (wrongly) believe that getting divorced has to be a long, emotional, costly affair. But the reality is that … Read More
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How To Have A Good Divorce
“Be open to the idea that a relationship can be hugely successful and have a shelf life. That’s OK.” Ahead … Read More
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How To Have A Happy Divorce
We loved chatting to Stephen Armstrong and he’s written a brilliant article in Mr Porter about no-fault divorce and our … Read More
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How to Help your Friends Divorce Well
You probably don’t realise it, but if you have a close friend going through a divorce then you are going … Read More
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How to Manage the Festive Season if you’re Facing Divorce
Christmas, and many other festive periods, can be overwhelming at the best of times. There is so much expectation … Read More
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How To Pick A Divorce Lawyer…
It’s so important to do your research before you start. Make sure your legal team shares your values - do … Read More
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How To Progress Your Divorce During Coronavirus
There seems to be an assumption that every aspect of human life is in the deep freeze until we emerge … Read More
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How To Support Your Child Through Your Divorce
Knowing how to talk to your child and how to understand their feelings are two of the most important things … Read More
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How To Tell Your Children You Are Getting A Divorce
For many parents, the most daunting part of deciding to separate is thinking how best to tell their children. It’s … Read More
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How We Help Couples With No Fault Divorce
What is “no fault” divorce? The landmark Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 became law on 6 April 2022. The … Read More
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I’m A Lawyer And This Is What Will Happen To Britney’s Money In Her Divorce From Sam’
OK! Magazine spoke to our co-founder Samantha yesterday about the news surrounding Britney Spear’s divorce, and the effect of pre-nups … Read More
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Improving Access To Justice Report
JUSTICE, the all-party law reform and human rights organisation, has published a report setting out ambitious but realistic recommendations which … Read More
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In-Laws and Divorce
Sounds like a terrible mix? but, it doesn’t have to be! Don’t let assumptions about divorce define your relationships with … Read More
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Innovate UK Unlocking Potential Award
Innovate UK’s Women In Innovation Award enabled us to develop our Form E tool and grow the tech side of … Read More
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Innovate UK Women In Innovation Award Winners
It feels amazing to be able to announce on International Women’s Day that our co-founder Samantha Woodham has been awarded, along with … Read More
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Is A 60 Year Marriage The Gold Standard?
This is a huge issue for so many of the couples we see. The idea that the fact of their … Read More
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Is Divorce Bad For Children?
So many of the divorcing couples we meet are riddled with guilt that their divorce is going to be bad … Read More
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Is It A Choice Between A Good Divorce Or Getting Legal Advice?
It’s a terrible state of affairs that many divorcing couples are scared to get legal advice because they think getting … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 23 March 2023
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Is Talking About Divorce A Taboo? Should It Be?
We are all so much better than we were a decade ago when it comes to talking about mental health. … Read More
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Is There More Than One Kind Of Maintenance?
Maintenance can be one of the more difficult aspects of arranging your finances on separation. If you have children, most … Read More
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Isn’t It Just 50/50?
If only it were that simple! We understand that financial negotiations can be a scary prospect… but understanding the court’s … Read More
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It’s Easy To Fall Out
Working together isn’t easy. When your relationship is ending, and you realise that your futures lie in different directions, instinctively … Read More
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IWD 2023: Embrace Equity
The theme for International Women’s Day 2023 is Embrace Equity, which prompts a discussion around the difference between ‘equity’ and … Read More
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Jennifer Lopez Opens Up About ‘Process’ of Blending Her Family with Husband Ben Affleck’s
It’s so refreshing when celebrities speak openly and positively of their experiences after divorce, and how they can co-parent successfully … Read More
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Justice Week 2020
Justice, and access to justice, is vital for us all. And at The Divorce Surgery we are proud to support … Read More
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Kate Hudson Talks Co-Parenting
It’s so helpful and refreshing when other co-parents talk about how they manage their co-parenting relationship. Kate Hudson is the … Read More
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Keeping Cases out of Court
It is fantastic to see the proper use and application of Part 3 FPR to keep cases which don’t need … Read More
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Latest Statistics Show Divorces Taking Even Longer
The latest family court statistics have just been published and they show that the number of cases started in the … Read More
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Law Commission Launches Review Of 50-Year-Old Laws On Finances After Divorce
The Law Commission of England and Wales has officially launched its review of the laws which determine how finances are … Read More
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Legal Week Awards
The Divorce Surgery was chosen ahead of an impressive shortlist of heavyweight law firms. We are thrilled that our pioneering … Read More
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Major Study Supports One Couple One Lawyer Model
First major study into One Couple One Lawyer services heralds good news for divorcing families A new report … Read More
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Marriage Revokes a Will: Why You Must Update
Did you know that marriage revokes a will? Recent research by charity Will Aid shows that over half … Read More
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Mastering Co-Parent Communication: The Key to Successful Co-Parenting
Effective communication between co-parents is essential for successfully navigating the challenges of co-parenting after divorce. Without clear and respectful communication, … Read More
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Mastering Successful Co-Parenting: A Step-by-Step Guide
Navigating the complexities of co-parenting after a divorce can be challenging, but with the right approach and strategies, it is … Read More
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Matrimonial Causes Act To Be Subject To A Major Review
The asset-splitting provisions within the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 are set to be reviewed by the Law Commission. Criticism of … Read More
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Ministry of justice U-Turns on 10% hike on divorce court fees
The Ministry of Justice (MoJ) has announced a number of changes to court and tribunal fees, however, divorce fees will … Read More
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Modernising the Child Maintenance Service
The DWP has opened a consultation into modernising the Child Maintenance Service (CMS). The consultation is open to CMS customers … Read More
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Moving Forward: How to Approach Dating After an Amicable Divorce
After an amicable divorce, many people look to move forward and begin a new chapter in life. For some, this … Read More
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Moving On After Divorce
Divorce is a significant life change and knowing how to move on afterwards is essential to the entire process. But … Read More
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MPs Urge The Government To End Delay On Cohabitation Reform
The Women and Equalities Committee has urged the government to reconsider its position to delay cohabitation law reform, in a … Read More
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Mr Justice Peel Shines A Spotlight On Single Lawyer Models
Mr Justice Peel, High Court Judge of the Family Division and National Lead Judge of the Financial Remedy Court, recently … Read More
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My Family Court Hearing Has Been Adjourned Due To The Coronavirus - What Can I Do?
The Coronavirus is impacting every aspect of our daily lives, in ways which would have been inconceivable just a few … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 February 2022
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Myth Busting Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR)
Whilst the President of the Family Division has made it clear that the Court’s key aim over coming weeks is … Read More
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NA v LA Case- 2024
The decision in NA v LA [2024] of Nicholas Allen KC (sitting as a Deputy High Court Judge) has cleared up any … Read More
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Navigating an Amicable Divorce with Blended Families
Divorcing within a blended family adds complexity to the process, but an amicable approach can help minimise conflict and protect … Read More
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Navigating Choppy Waters: Overcoming Common Co-Parenting Challenges
Divorce is seldom easy, especially when children are involved. The transition from being a couple to being co-parents can be … Read More
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Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster of Amicable Divorce
Divorce is never easy, but for those seeking an amicable separation, the emotional journey can be particularly challenging. In this … Read More
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Navigating The Holidays: 10 Tips For Hibernating From Divorce this Christmas
The holiday season, particularly Christmas, is a time of joy and family gatherings. However, for those who are going through … Read More
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Navigating Your Financial Future During an Amicable Divorce: A Practical Guide
Divorce, even when amicable, is a significant life event that can disrupt your financial stability and long-term planning. Understanding how … Read More
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Navigating Your First Christmas After You Separate
Christmas can be one of the most stressful times of the year. Don’t imagine everyone else is having a great … Read More
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New Advice Line For Businesses To Support Employees Suffering Domestic Abuse
At a time when, once again, we are all being told to work from home where we can, it is … Read More
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New Book Launch - The Art Of Untying The Knot
We’ve written the ultimate 10 Step Divorce Plan! Our co-founders, family law barristers Samantha and Harry, have created the guide … Read More
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New guidance on making remote hearings as safe as possible
Making remote hearings as safe as possible is crucial. Careful forethought is needed to ensure the experience does not lead … Read More
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New Guidance On Remote Hearings
Hot off the press - new guidance from the Family Courts on remote hearings. … Read More
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New Ministry of Justice data shows that no fault divorce did not create a surge in divorces
The latest published data shows that between October and December 2023 there were 23,517 no fault divorce applications (75% from … Read More
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New Poll Shows Majority Of Cohabiting Couples Want Better Legal Rights
As the law currently stands, cohabiting couples have few or no legal rights in the event of a relationship breakdown … Read More
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New Pre-application Protocol further encourages use of ‘One Couple One Lawyer’ services
A new Pre-application Protocol for financial remedy proceedings was published last week, providing very useful and insightful judicial guidance on … Read More
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New Private Law Cases Received By Cafcass In September 14% Higher Than 2019
Cafcass received a total of 4,262 new private law cases (involving 6,566 children) in September 2020 - 14.5 per cent … Read More
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New Rankings for Harry and Samantha as Leading Juniors in Legal 500.
Thank you to all the kind referees who contributed to the recent rankings for Harry and Samantha as Leading Juniors … Read More
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New Report Exploring How Families Experience Separation
A new report by researchers from the School for Policy Studies and University of Bristol Law School, funded by the … Read More
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New Research Challenges Common Divorce Misconceptions
A recent report, led by the University of Bristol and funded by the Nuffield Foundation, reveals that, unlike the high … Read More
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New Research Suggests People Are Unaware How Pensions Impact On Divorce
Once again we are told too many are losing out on pensions when they divorce. Over and over again studies … Read More
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New Term, New Start?
As we come into September, that new school term feeling can cause reflections on many aspects of life, including relationships. … Read More
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New Working Together Divorce & Separation Directory
We are very proud to have worked with Tavistock Relationships on their new ‘Working Together Divorce & Separation Directory’, which … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 May 2022
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No Fault Divorce Bill: 2nd Reading - Briefing from Resolution
The No Fault Divorce Bill has its second reading in the House of Commons today. This is a vital first … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 January 2022
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No Fault Divorce To Be Introduced On 6th April 2022
BREAKING NEWS: No Fault Divorce to be introduced on 6th April 2022. Ministers have today announced that the Divorce, Dissolution … Read More
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No Fault Divorce, Today’s Family Lawyer & The Divorce Surgery
Great to see the no fault divorce legislation once again being seen as a turning point to a less adversarial, … Read More
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Normalising Stress and Divorce
Divorce is stressful. There have been many studies confirming this but now there is another. The Holmes-Rahe Life Stress Inventory … Read More
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Nuffield Family Justice Observatory Report On Private Family Law Applications Involving Non-Parents
The Nuffield Family Justice Observatory (NFJO) has published a report exploring private law proceedings in the family courts that involve … Read More
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Nuffield FJO Releases Its Strategy
Nuffield Family Justice Observatory (Nuffield FJO) has published its strategy for 2022 to 2026. Their statement of goals is particularly … Read More
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On Average Over A Year, Sometimes More, To Resolve Financial Remedy Court Proceedings
A committee led by HHJ Stuart Farquhar (Lead Judge of the Kent, Surrey & Sussex Financial Remedies Court (FRC)) has … Read More
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One Couple One Lawyer
Co-founders and barristers Samantha Woodham and Harry Gates write in Family Law today about why they set up The Divorce … Read More
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One Couple One Lawyer Headlines At The Today’s Family Lawyer Conference 2023
When our co-founders Harry and Samantha set up The Divorce Surgery, they hoped to change the way couples viewed divorce, … Read More
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One Couple One Lawyer On The Hug Directory
Couples who come to The Divorce Surgery have a completely unique experience to those who go to separate solicitors… We … Read More
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One Couple One Lawyer Recognised As A “Huge Shift” For Family Law At The Resolution Conference
Resolution is a group of family lawyers, and other professionals, that promotes a non-confrontational approach to resolving family disputes. Resolution … Read More
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One In Four Family Lawyers Thinking Of Leaving The Profession
The family law group Resolution is due to publish a landmark wellbeing report next week. It surveyed over 1,200 family … Read More
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One Month To Go Until No-Fault Divorce Becomes A Reality
On 6th April 2022 the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 will come into force. Described as ‘the biggest reform of … Read More
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Opening Up The Family Courts
On 29 November 2022, the President of the Family Division, Sir Andrew McFarlane, issued The Transparency Reporting Pilot Guidance to … Read More
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Our Book, The Art Of Untying the Knot, Is A Year Old Today!
When Harry and Sam wrote the book, they wanted it to be a blueprint for separating couples to navigate divorce … Read More
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Our co-founder is appointed as a sub-committee member of the Online Procedure Rules Committee.
The Ministry of Justice has recently announced that our co-founder Samantha has been selected as a sub-committee member of the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 July 2024
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Our Co-Founder Samantha Is Honoured With A Purple Plaque
On Monday, our co-founder Samantha Woodham was presented with a purple plaque, recognising her innovation in Family Law. There are … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 22 March 2023
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Our Co-Founder Samantha On The Lynette Faye Show
Did you hear our co-founder Samantha on The Lynette Faye Show yesterday afternoon? Thank you Lynette so much for having … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 May 2023
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Our co-founder Samantha talks about bird-nesting to the Evening Standard today
Bird-nesting, where couples retain the family home after separation so their children can stay put and they each alternate living … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 April 2024
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Our Co-founder Speaks At Mishcon de Reya Event: Who Needs Family Lawyers Anyway?
Our co-founder Samantha was delighted to be on the panel at Mishcon de Reya’s event last night: ‘Who needs Family … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 November 2023
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Our Co-Founder Speaks To Citywealth About The Impact Of No-Fault Divorce
It has been nearly a year and a half since ‘no-fault’ divorce was implemented. In a recent feature, Citywealth spoke … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 October 2023
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Our Co-Founders Are Recognised Again In The Legal 500
Whilst legal directories are only one small measure of achievement, it is still pleasing each year to see our co-founders, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 November 2022
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Our co-founders attend the launch of the Online Procedure Rules Committee
Our co-founders were delighted to attend the launch of the Online Procedure Rule Committee (‘OPRC’), introduced by the Lord Chancellor … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 November 2023
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Our Co-Founders Discuss No Fault Divorce On ITV News
Listen to our co-founders Samantha Woodham and Harry Gates live on ITV news explaining what no-fault divorce means, and how … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 April 2022
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Our Co-Founders Invited To Discuss Their Services At The Law Commission
Our co-founders Sam and Harry had a fascinating afternoon at the Law Commission discussing One Couple One Lawyer services and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2023
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Our Co-Founders Make It To The Sunday Times Magazine
Most people approach the subject of divorce with so many preconceptions and so much negative bias that it makes a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 January 2024
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Our Co-Founders once again recognised by Tatler
We are delighted that our co-founders have, once again, been recognised in Tatler Advisory as two of only seven recognised … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 May 2022
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Our Co-Founders Once Again Recognised By The Spears 500
Delighted to say our co-founders Samantha Woodham and Harry Gates are once again recognised by the Spears 500 within the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 May 2023
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Our co-founders recognised in Spears 500 guide
We are delighted that our co-founders Harry Gates and Samantha Woodham appear in the Spears 500 divorce consultancy … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 December 2025
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Our Form E Tool Is Nominated For Another Award!
Hot off the heels from being ‘Highly Commended’ at the Lexis Nexis Legal Awards, our Form E tool has been … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 11 April 2023
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Over 15% Of The Family’s Wealth Spent On Legal Fees In A Recent Case
Another week, another family judge laments the legal fees incurred in a case which, in his view, should never have … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 February 2023
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Pandemic Prioritisation Protocol Returns To The Family Court
Cafcass is the organisation which works with the Family Court to assess the safety and welfare of children and subsequently … Read More
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Parental Conflict and Child Wellbeing: Why Early Support Matters
New research from the Department for Work & Pensions reveals that one in ten children in couple-parent families are affected … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 June 2025
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Parents Could Face Costs Order For Clogging Up Family Court
Parents thought to be unnecessarily clogging up the courts could face financial penalties under plans reportedly being drawn up by … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 29 November 2021
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Parents Guide to Remote Hearings
For all couples facing a remote hearing, this is an excellent guide created for parents to help them navigate the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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Parliamentary Protests At The Incremental Lowering Of The Barriers To Divorce Over The Last 150 Years
A wonderfully bracing romp through the history of objections to divorce, as retold by Professor Chris Barton. Lena Jeger MP … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Pets & Divorce
Pets and divorce. Not always an easy combination, and often an area in which pet owners feel the law is … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 February 2022
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Planning a Post-Divorce Financial Budget: A Path to Financial Stability
Navigating life after divorce can be financially daunting. Creating a post-divorce financial budget ensures you’re set for a secure future, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 18 October 2024
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Planning Holidays and Special Occasions as Co-Parents
Co-parenting during holidays and special occasions can be challenging, but with thoughtful planning, it’s possible to ensure the experience is … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 22 November 2024
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Positive Impacts Of Divorce For Couples
Divorce is hard. Of course it is. Any separation is tough, and the human emotions involved can feel overwhelming at … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 September 2023
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Practical Advice When Disagreeing About Divorce
Disagreeing about divorce is not unusual. While one spouse may have made up their mind and decided that permanent separation … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 December 2023
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President Of The Family Division: Relaunching Family Mediation
On 28 September 2022, the President of the Family Division, Sir Andrew McFarlane, gave the John Cornwell Lecture 2022 to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 October 2022
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Privacy Policy - The Divorce Surgery
Thank you for choosing to instruct The Divorce Surgery in your case. The Divorce Surgery and the barrister advising you … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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Private Law In Crisis?
Earlier this week Sir James Munby gave a speech on the current state of the Family Courts. It is a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 February 2020
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Pro Bono Week 2022: 7-11 November
This week is Pro Bono Week! The Bar has a long tradition of offering free legal advice and representation to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 November 2022
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Pro Bono Week 2023: 6-10 November
This week is Pro Bono Week! Pro Bono Week offers an opportunity to recognise and support the voluntary contribution made … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 November 2023
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Putting Empathy At The Heart Of Customer Care
Empathy with clients and team members is the heart of a business. When you’re helping couples navigate a life change … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 June 2022
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Radmacher v Granatino: 10 Years On, The Sea Of Change
As Catherin Baksi points out in The Times, it’s 10 years now since the famous decision in Radmacher v Granatino … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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Raise The Bar Podcast on ‘How Can We Divorce Better’ with Samantha Woodham
Our Co-founder Samantha Woodham has been referenced on the ’10 Finance Podcasts Worth The Listen’ in SheerLuxe magazine. TO GET THE FEMALE PERSPECTIVE: Raise The … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 April 2022
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Raise The Bar Podcast With Samantha Woodham: How Can We Divorce Better?
Our co-founder Samantha Woodham was delighted to speak to Frankie Cotton for her Podcast Raise The Bar. Raise The Bar … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 August 2022
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Ranked in the top 50 most innovative law firms in Europe
The Divorce Surgery ranked in the FT 50 list of most innovative law firms in Europe. The Divorce Surgery also … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Recent survey highlights huge demand for a different approach to divorce
A recent survey commissioned by law firm Irwin Mitchell shows the huge demand amongst divorcing couples for a different, less … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Recognised by Chambers and Partners UK Bar 2026
We’re proud to share that both Samantha Woodham and Harry Gates, co-founders of The Divorce Surgery, have once … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 4 November 2025
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Reform Of Tax Rules For Divorcing Couples
The government has released draft legislation which will change the capital gains tax position for divorcing couples. At the moment … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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Refusing Non-Court Dispute Resolution (NCDR) Could Now Cost You
From 1st October 2024, courts in England and Wales will have new powers to impose legal cost penalties on parties … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 April 2025
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Remember Judges Can (And Do) Block Financial Settlements, Even If You Both Agree
It always comes as a shock to separating couples to learn that even if they reach a financial agreement, a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 July 2023
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Removal of presumption of parental involvement
Removal of presumption of parental involvement marks a major shift in child contact cases For many years, family … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 November 2025
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Removing Unnecessary Conflict Around Arrangements For Children
The President of the Family Division recently gave a speech to the Jersey International Family Law Conference, reflecting on his … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 November 2021
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Report on the Future of Legal Aid
Legal aid is in urgent need of reform to ensure that the most vulnerable can have access to justice, a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 August 2021
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Reporting pilot extended to include private family disputes
The Family Division’s Transparency Implementation Group Reporting Pilot has been extended to include private law (meaning private family disputes concerning … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 August 2024
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Research finds women’s income likely to fall by almost twice men’s post-divorce
The financial services company Legal & General has found that following divorce, women are likely to have their household incomes … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Research Highlights The Importance Of Pension Sharing On Divorce For Women’s Finances
Important new research from the Manchester Institute for Collaborative Research (MICRA) builds on earlier research which has consistently shown how … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 18 October 2021
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Resolving Divorce Finances FAQs
Resolving Finances FAQs What is a financial settlement? What are you entitled to on divorce? How quickly can you reach … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 December 2021
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Rethinking Divorce: From Conflict to Connection
In a recent episode of Conflict to Connection, our co-founder Samantha Woodham joined Mitch Wilkins of Civilised Separations to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 October 2025
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Rise in litigants in person in family courts
8 out of 10 private family court hearings now involve litigants in person Litigants in person now appear … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 November 2025
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Samantha & Harry On The 6pm News: Discussing The Impact Of The Cost Of Living Crisis On Divorce
Watch our co-founders Samantha and Harry on the 6pm News discussing the impact of the cost of living crisis on … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 29 September 2022
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Samantha And Harry’s Guide To Divorcing Well
Thank you Pennywise Consultants Ltd and Alison Porter for including The Divorce Surgery: The art of untying the knot in … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 May 2022
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Samantha Named to Leaders List 2025
We’re delighted to share that our co-founder Samantha Woodham has once again been named in the Citywealth Leaders List 2025, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 July 2025
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Samantha Woodham & Harry Gates in The Legal 500 2025
Recognition in The Legal 500 2025 Guide We’re delighted to share that both Samantha Woodham and Harry Gates, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 October 2025
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Samantha Woodham Citywealth 2026 Leaders List
We are pleased to share that our co-founder Samantha Woodham has once again been included in the Citywealth … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 29 July 2026
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Samantha Woodham Co-Founder Of The Divorce Surgery Shortlisted For Entrepreneur Of The Year
We are absolutely delighted that our co-founder Samantha Woodham has been shortlisted for Entrepreneur of the Year at the Women in Law Awards 2020. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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Samantha Woodham Guest Speaking On 10th March To Celebrate International Women’s Day
Our co-founder Samantha Woodham will be speaking in a virtual panel discussion hosted by K&L Gates in celebration of International Womens Day 2021 on … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Samantha Woodham in Today’s Family Lawyer: How has Covid-19 impacted on the ability to get divorced?
As the one year anniversary of the pandemic approaches, Today’s Family Lawyer posed the question of how the pandemic, and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Samantha Woodham interviewed at The Dura Society on Setting up a business and the future of Family Justice
Lottie Leefe at the The Dura Society interviewed our co-founder Samantha Woodham about The Divorce Surgery, setting up a business … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 26 April 2022
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Samantha Woodham On ‘Divorce Day’
Today is known as ‘Divorce Day’ and so we asked our co-founder Samantha Woodham to speak about it (spoiler alert, she’s not … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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Samantha Woodham On International Women’s Day
This year’s IWD theme is Power To Change. The events in Ukraine, however, can render us feeling powerless to effect … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 May 2023
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Samantha Woodham Quoted In The Independent, Giving Her Top Tips For Prince Harry’s Cross Examination
Our co-founder Samantha Woodham is quoted today in The Independent giving her top tips for Prince Harry’s cross examination. As she says: “Barristers often … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 June 2023
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Samantha Woodham Speaks On The Citywealth Live Sessions Special
Huge respect to all those who won or were shortlisted for an award at the Citywealth Powerwomen Awards 2021. Hear … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 19 July 2021
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Samantha Woodham Speaks To BBC
Samantha Woodham speaks to BBC Business Live this morning to explain the pioneering service The Divorce Surgery is offering to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 February 2020
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Samantha Woodham Wins Champion of the Year at the CityWealth Powerwomen Awards 2021
We are delighted to announce that our co-founder Samantha Woodham has won Champion of the Year at the Citywealth Powerwoman of the Year Awards! … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Samantha Woodham wins Innovator of the Year at the Women & Diversity in Law Awards
She won!!! Our co-founder Samantha won Innovator of the Year at the Women & Diversity in Law Awards on 13th … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 March 2024
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Second Time Around Dating - How To Find Love Again After A Divorce
At The Divorce Surgery we encourage all our couples to access help from the right experts at the right time. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Senior Judge Calls Out One Couple One Lawyer Services As A Means Of Reducing Conflict For Separating Families
The word “justice” should be taken out of “family justice system” as part of a broader effort to seek solutions … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 June 2023
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Shortlisted For Family Law Innovation of the Year Awards
Wow! We are absolutely thrilled to be shortlisted for Family Law Innovation of the Year at the LexisNexis UK Family … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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Should children be moving between their parents’ homes during the Coronavirus?
UPDATE: 02/11/20 - As England enters a second lockdown on Thursday we wanted to remind co-parents that the guidance in respect … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Silver Splitters: 5 Tips To Consider If Divorcing Over 65
The majority of issues affecting divorcing couples have no relevance to their age whatsoever. Treating divorce as a shared problem, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Speech By President Of The Family Division Highlights The Divorce Surgery’s One Couple One Lawyer Service
The President of the Family Division has once again used his platform to encourage divorcing couples to resolve the legal … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 November 2022
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Spousal Maintenance: How Much & How Long Will It Last?
The question of how assets and finances will be divided upon divorce is one of the key issues in family … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 30 March 2023
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Starting Divorce in the UK
Starting divorce in the UK can feel like a huge step, but it doesn’t have to be combative or confusing. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 31 July 2025
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Stigma And Divorce
Divorce still carries so much stigma, but we need it to STOP. 42% of marriages end in divorce, and we … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 June 2023
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Support Lawyers Now Or They May Not Be There When Justice Is Needed
We are all reflecting on the impact of Covid-19, and with that in mind the Commons Justice Committee’s recent report … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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Supporting Children Through Divorce
The recent Family Solutions Group report has brought renewed attention to an issue that deserves far more care … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 March 2026
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Supreme Court judgment in Standish brings welcome clarity
The Standish Supreme Court judgment has clarified how courts view non-matrimonial and matrimonial property in divorce cases. The Supreme Court … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 July 2025
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Tatler Address Book
The Tatler Address Book is out with their February edition and it’s fantastic to see both our co-founders, Harry Gates … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 18 January 2023
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Tavistock Relationships Formally Launch Their Working Together Divorce & Separation Directory
Yesterday, Tavistock Relationships formally launched their Working Together Divorce & Separation Directory. The directory is all about enabling couples to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 May 2022
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Thank You Gwyneth! Because Divorce Doesn’t Need To Be A Battle
This is a beautiful essay written by Gwyneth Paltrow about her experience of consciously uncoupling from Chris Martin. It is … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 September 2021
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The ‘DIY Divorce’ Trend
As reported in MoneyWeek, ‘DIY divorce’ covers a range of possibilities. If this means navigating divorce with no professional input … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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The ‘No Order Principle’
The ‘no order principle’ is a principle family judges have to apply in every case concerning children which comes before … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 June 2023
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The Benefits of Mediation vs. Shared Lawyer in Divorce
For couples seeking an amicable divorce in the UK, the options of mediation and a shared lawyer provide effective ways … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 December 2024
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The Changing Face of Family Law and What It Means for You
‘Divorce is riven with high emotion and often irrational behaviour. It is by its nature combative, but lawyers are increasingly … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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The Cost Of Living Crisis And Divorce
How does the rising cost of living affect divorce? Cases can be harder to settle, meaning its even more vital … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 November 2023
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The Damaging Impact Of Court Proceedings
The judgment in this recent case begins with a depressingly telling first line: ‘This is the saddest of cases illustrating … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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The Divorce Dilemma: One Common Mistake That Escalates Court Proceedings
In the realm of divorce, emotions often run high, and decisions can be clouded by hurt and resentment. Amidst this … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 May 2024
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The Divorce Surgery Chosen As Finalists At The Lexis Nexis Legal Awards 2023
It’s very exciting to share with you all a double announcement today! We have just launched our new Form E … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 February 2023
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The Divorce Surgery Co-founders Attend A Roundtable Session At Ministry of Justice UK
Our co-founders Samantha Woodham and Harry Gates were invited by the Ministry of Justice UK to attend a roundtable session … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2023
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The Divorce Surgery Co-Founders Once Again Recognised In Spears 500
We are delighted to say that our co-founders Harry Gates and Samantha Woodham have once again been recognised in the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 22 March 2023
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The Divorce Surgery Co-Founders recognised again in Legal 500 rankings
Samantha and Harry, alongside many of the barristers who advise couples in our process, have been once again recognised in … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Co-founders Recognised In Spears 500
We are delighted to say that our co-founders Harry Gates and Samantha Woodham have once again been recognised in the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery continues to disrupt the divorce market
Spears magazine writes today of our partnership with Settify, which uses AI to enable our clients to provide information to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery in Tatler
Tatler has a feature today about how our One Couple One Lawyer approach is revolutionising the way couples get divorced … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 February 2020
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The Divorce Surgery In The Financial Times
Our co-founders Samantha and Harry spent a very enjoyable afternoon talking to the Financial Times about the increasing trend to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery In The I Newspaper
Very exciting coverage today in the I newspaper! Thank you Kasia Delgado for spending so long chatting to Samantha and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 May 2022
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The Divorce Surgery Launches New ‘Living Apart, Parenting Together’ Service
We are thrilled to launch our brand new Living Apart, Parenting Together (LAPT) service, designed to give separating families the best … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Listed As One Of The Nine ‘Key Players’ In The IRN Family Law Market Report 2023
The report, published in June 2023, is the 9th edition of an annual research report from IRN Legal Reports. According … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 August 2023
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The Divorce Surgery proposed to be part of a National Alliance to keep children cases out of court
We are very honoured to be named as a national agency in the Supporting Separated Families Alliance for Resolving Issues … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Published in Red Magazine On Separation During Coronavirus Lockdown
A great article by our Co-Founder Samantha Woodham published in Red Magazine UK… As Sam says, “there are so many … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Recognized in the Tatler HNW Address Book
It has arrived! The inaugural Tatler HNW Address book for Family Law and both of our co-founders are featured. ‘HNW … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Shortlisted At The Lawyer Awards 2021
We are delighted that our Living Apart Parenting Together service has been shortlisted for The Lawyer ‘Best Client Service Innovation’ … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 28 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Shortlisted At The Lexis Nexis Awards 2021
We are delighted to be on the LexisNexis Family Law Awards shortlist for the award of Family Law Innovation 2021, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 28 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Shortlisted At The Prestigious Family Law Awards 2020
More excitement! The Divorce Surgery has been shortlisted once again for Family Law Innovation of the Year at the prestigious … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Wins ‘Future of Legal Services Innovation’ Award 2020
We can’t believe it! We have won the Law.com Legal Week Innovation Award 2020 for ‘Future of Legal Services Innovation - … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Wins Best Client Service Innovation 2019
We are now multi-award winners! We are thrilled to have won The Lawyer Best Client Service Innovation 2019 in a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Divorce Surgery Wins Lexis Nexis 2022 Award For Customer Focus
When couples separate they need legal advice. And if they want to, they need to be able to get that … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 April 2022
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The Divorce Surgery Wins Lexis Nexis Award 2020
We are so pleased to have won the Award for Legal Services Innovation at last week’s Lexis Nexis Legal Awards … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 16 March 2020
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The Divorce Surgery: Proudly Supporting The ‘Sort It Out’ Campaign
Research overwhelmingly demonstrates that exposure to frequent, intense and poorly resolved conflict between parents has a long-lasting and negative effect … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Divorce, Dissolution & Separation Bill Receives Royal Assent
The Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Bill received Royal Assent on 25th June 2020, and so it is now officially an … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 September 2021
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The Family Court In Lockdown - Video Podcast
As we slowly emerge from lockdown, careful lessons need to be learned. From the perspective of Family Justice, Covid-19 heralded … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 September 2021
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The Family Home: What Happens To It On Divorce?
When a couple divorce, a question of key concern is what will happen to our family home? This is because … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 July 2020
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The Family Solutions Initiative - A Response To A System In Crisis
The Family Solutions Group (‘FSG’) report, entitled What about me?: Reframing Support for Families following Parental Separation starkly underlined the problems of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The i Newspaper Asks The Simple Question: ‘Would You Use The “One Couple One Lawyer”
The i newspaper has run a poll asking the simple question: ‘Would you use the “one couple one lawyer” approach … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 23 May 2022
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The Impact of Divorce on Friendships and Extended Family
Divorce is not just a significant shift in the lives of the couple involved, but it also reverberates through their … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 December 2023
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The Importance of Involving Children In Decisions About Them
One of the key criticisms of family justice is that it is too parent-centric: huge amounts of time and money … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 February 2023
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The Increasing Desire For Amicable Divorces
When we launched The Divorce Surgery there was huge professional support but also some healthy scepticism- was there going to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 February 2022
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The Legal Steps Of Divorce / Dissolving A Civil Partnership
Step 1: The Divorce/ Dissolution Petition The following must apply to you: You must have been married or in a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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The Marriage Gap: Let’s De-stigmatise Personal Choice
The Centre for Social Justice have produced a report analysing the differing outcomes for children and parents based on whether … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 September 2021
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The Need To Re-evaluate Language Used On Divorce And Separation
When the brilliant Helen Adam contacted The Divorce Surgery in the Spring asking us to get involved with a project … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 October 2022
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The New Divorce Battle: Who Gets To Keep The Low Mortgage
Rising mortgage interest rates have a direct impact on couples going through separation and divorce, as they make separate homes … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 July 2023
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The Nuffield Family Justice Observatory: New Consultation On Remote Hearings
All of us who have engaged in any way with Family Justice during the pandemic should make the effort to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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The Number Of Unmarried Couples Is Growing
The number of unmarried couples is growing hugely… but, family law has not caught up… there is NO SUCH THING … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 6 April 2023
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The Overlooked Mistake of Short-Term Thinking in Amicable Divorces
An amicable divorce is a commendable and increasingly popular choice among couples in the UK. By choosing to separate with … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 23 August 2024
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The Overriding Objective
The Overriding Objective is set out at the start of the Family Procedure Rules, and sets out a blueprint for … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 22 June 2023
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The Pitfall of Ignoring Emotional Boundaries in Successful Co-Parenting
A recurring mistake that many divorcing couples can make when navigating the delicate balance of co-parenting arrangements is ignoring emotional … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 23 May 2024
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The Positive Effects Of Divorce On Children
Divorce can impact children in many different ways. But it’s important to understand that the impact isn’t always negative. In … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 September 2023
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The Positive Effects Of Divorce On Couples
While it’s often billed as a negative event, divorce can have many positive outcomes for couples. In this post, we … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 August 2023
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The Positive Effects On Divorce
This feels like a controversial thing to say. But it really shouldn’t be. For some families, divorce can be the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 September 2023
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The Private Law Justice Gap
The Nuffield Family Justice Observatory has published a report on private law cases in England and Wales. The report ‘Uncovering … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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The Role of Financial Advisors in an Amicable Divorce
Divorce is often viewed through an emotional lens, but for couples looking to separate amicably, addressing the financial aspects of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 November 2024
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This Week Is Justice Week
The more you think about it, ‘justice’ is a rather inappropriate concept when it comes to two people trying to … Read More
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This Week Is Justice Week!
Justice week is a collaboration across the justice sector to improve access to justice by building public support and understanding … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 22 June 2023
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Three Tips For An Amicable Divorce
When you’re getting divorced, you can be overwhelmed with advice (all well-meaning, but too much to process). So here’s our … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 May 2023
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Time Taken For A ‘Paper-Based’ Divorce Has Jumped To Over 15 Months
A paper-based divorce application took 66.5 weeks on average to complete in the first quarter of 2020, up from an … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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Toxic Positivity & Divorce
Divorce is hard, and raises difficult emotions for the adults going through it, and their families. A recent Wall Street … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 January 2022
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Transparency Reporting Pilot: Recommendation That Privacy Should Be Retained For Out-of-court Settlements
The transparency reporting pilot launched on 30 January 2023 in Cardiff, Carlisle, and Leeds, with the aim of exploring how … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 July 2023
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Transparency Reporting Pilot: Recommendation That Privacy Should Be Retained For Out-Of-Court Settlements
The transparency reporting pilot launched on 30 January 2023 in Cardiff, Carlisle, and Leeds, with the aim of exploring how … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 June 2023
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UK Court System Problems: Justice in Crisis
A damning new report by the Law Society of England and Wales has spotlighted serious UK court system problems. … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 October 2025
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Understanding The Divorce Process In The UK?
Here at The Divorce Surgery, we are regularly contacted by couples who know they want to get a divorce and … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 September 2023
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Untamed Divorce
Glennon Doyle’s bestselling book inspired us all to live Untamed. Barrister and Co-founder of The Divorce Surgery, Samantha Woodham, explains … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 22 April 2024
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Updated Sorting out Finances on Divorce Guidance published
The Family Justice Council Financial Needs Working Group has reviewed and updated it’s guide on Sorting Out Finances on Divorce, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 26 June 2024
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Updating Your Will After Divorce: Why It’s Essential
Divorce often brings a whirlwind of emotional, legal, and financial changes. In the midst of it all, one critical task … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 June 2025
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Value Of FDAC ‘Problem-Solving Approach’ Highlighted By New Study
A new large-scale study has revealed the positive impact of the Family Drug and Alcohol Courts in care proceedings. Family … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 29 August 2023
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Video Blog: Helping You Minimise The Cost Of Divorce
In his latest video blog, our co-founder Harry Gates discusses how The Divorce Surgery can help you minimise the cost … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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Video Blog: Should Children Be Moving Between Their Parents’ Homes During the Coronavirus?
In her latest video blog, our co-founder Samantha Woodham discusses her recent interview on the BBC News. Highlighting the impact … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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Want to hear our co-founder Samantha talk about all things divorce?
Want to hear our co-founder Samantha talk about all things divorce? Then do listen to her latest podcast with Chloe, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 18 October 2024
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We Are Shortlisted At Family Law Awards 2023
We’re very excited that our Form E tool has been shortlisted for Family Law Innovation Of The Year at this … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 December 2023
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We Need To Talk About Spousal Maintenance…
How much, and how long? and how do we agree on an outcome? In England & Wales, It’s fair to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 May 2023
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We’re Divorced And I Want To Move To A Different County
Divorce is often a catalyst to reassess everything about your life, and where you live is a big one. For … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 13 April 2023
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We’re Divorced And I Want To Move With Our Child
Can the other parent stop me? What do I need to know? Relocations are some of the hardest cases, as … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 8 November 2023
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What affects the Cost of an Amicable Divorce
What Does an Amicable Divorce Cost? If you’re wondering about the cost of an amicable divorce, you’re probably … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 July 2026
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What Are ‘Needs’ In Financial Cases?
There is no one size fits all answer… There is no one ‘needs’, like beauty, they are in the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What Are ‘Pre-nups’?
Pre-nups are legal documents entered into before marriage with the aim of regulating what happens to your finances if you … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 June 2023
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What Are Child Arrangements?
When a relationship breaks down, are a number of difficult decisions have to be made. Where there are children involved, … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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What Are My Options? Just A Solicitor Or Mediator, Right..?
This is your divorce. And there is no ‘one size fits all’. You know, better than anyone else, the things … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 17 November 2022
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What Are The Positive Effects Of Divorce?
Getting divorced is a life-changing event, but it doesn’t need to be daunting. In fact, many married couples experience a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What Do Family Lawyers Think About Divorce?
Family lawyers are often unfairly described as being in it for themselves. But you may well be surprised to know … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 12 June 2023
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What Do The New CGT Rules Mean For Divorcing Couples?
Under the previous Capital Gains Tax (CGT) laws, separating couples transferring their assets had to do so within the tax … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 April 2023
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What Does Conduct Mean In The Form E?
Many couples who complete their Forms E are frankly a little confused by the following text at part 4.4: “Bad … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 March 2023
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What Does It Mean To Be A Woman In Family Law Today?
What does it mean to be a woman in family law today? Read this article by Today’s Family Lawyer to see how … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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What Does Research Say About Divorce And Children?
We regularly post the latest news and research on our feed. But sometimes it’s helpful to have a recap. And … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 April 2023
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What happens if you die without a Will as a cohabitee?
Two thirds of cohabitees don’t know what would happen if they die without a Will Die without a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 November 2025
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What If Henry VIII Had Known About The Divorce Surgery?
In the first, and in all probability last, in our series about how the course of the world might have … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 February 2022
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What If We Have Business Assets To Divide?
Your essential guide to the court’s approach and when you will and wont need expert legal advice. One of the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 7 August 2023
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What Is a ‘Clean Break’?
It is the dismissal of one’s spouse’s financial claim against the other on divorce. It can be in relation to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 May 2023
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What Is A Blended Family?
This feels like a controversial thing to say. But it really shouldn’t be. For some families, divorce can be the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 20 October 2023
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What Is A Clean Break?
We are often asked by our clients: what does a clean break in divorce mean? This blog will answer just … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What Is A Clean Break?
When it comes to sorting out your finances, one question we often get asked is: will there be a ‘clean … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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What Is A Form E?
The reasonableness of any financial settlement is dependent on the quality of the disclosure which you’ve each given. Because if … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What Is a Judge Trying To Do In A Money Case?
The court is simply trying to be fair. Sounds beguilingly simple, doesn’t it? But being fair to both parties isn’t … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 June 2023
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What Is A Single Lawyer?
A Single Lawyer or a Single Lawyer Provider is the same as a One Couple One Lawyer service: it enables … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What is Co-parenting and How Can We Do it Well?
At The Divorce Surgery you won’t be surprised to hear we see a lot of separating families. It is obvious … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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What Is Conscious Uncoupling?
When Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin announced their intention to ‘consciously uncouple’ in 2014, Britain smirked. Possibly it didn’t help … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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What Is Divorce Day?
There is a dubious statistic (no lawyers we know understand where it has come from) that the most divorce applications … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What Is No-Fault Divorce In The UK
The landmark Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 became law on 6 April 2022. The most significant change this brought … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 August 2023
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What Is One Couple One Lawyer?
One Couple One Lawyer is a service which enables a separating couple to jointly instruct one impartial barrister who can … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 August 2023
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What Is Our Divorce Story?
Most high profile and celebrity couples will issue a joint statement when they separate. They do it to set a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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What Is Parental Responsibility?
Parental responsibility is the legal relationship between an adult and a child. It encapsulates all the decision-making power and authority … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 3 April 2023
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What Is The Biggest Mistake You Can Make On Divorce?
It’s starting with the wrong mindset. If you start a divorce thinking it’s going to be a battle, that you … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What Is The Child Maintenance Service (CMS)?
It’s what used to be called the CSA. It assesses and collects child maintenance in England and Wales, some of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 January 2024
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What Is The Divorce Surgery?
Founded by experienced and specialist family law barristers Samantha Woodham and Harry Gates, The Divorce Surgery has won awards for … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 9 July 2020
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What’s The First Question To Ask Your Family Lawyer?
What you’ll find, when you develop a relationship with your solicitor or barrister, is that they will come to know … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 October 2022
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Where Do We Start… When Agreeing A Plan For Our Children?
Separation is overwhelming. And if you have children, there is an additional burden of navigating it in a way which … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 December 2023
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Who Gets What In A Divorce?
Assuming you don’t have a ‘pre-nup’ to give you an answer, then it’s 50-50 right? Wrong. Cases where the capital … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 27 September 2023
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Who Keeps The Dog? Petnups In Divorce
Would you consider a ‘Petnup’? As a nation of animal lovers, you won’t be surprised to hear that the issue … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 22 June 2023
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Why De-stigmatising Divorce Is Vital for Our Health - Thrive Global
Our co-founder Samantha Woodham has been published in Thrive Global US on the urgent need to de-stigmatise divorce given the … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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Why Divorcing Couples Should Use Mel Robbins’ “Let Them” Theory for an Amicable Divorce
Divorce is often painted as a battle—two opposing sides, each fighting to “win.” But for many couples, this adversarial approach … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 January 2025
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Why Do People Go To Court? New Report Published By The MOJ
The Ministry of Justice has published a report containing a summary of findings following a qualitative study by Ipsos UK … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 July 2023
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Why Is Settling A Good Idea?
It is obvious that settling is good because it’s cheaper and quicker than the alternative, which is having an outcome … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 5 June 2023
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Why No-Fault Divorce Should Be A Springboard To Change The Way We Divorce
Thank you findaWEALTHMANAGER.com for opening up a conversation around the blame narrative of divorce and why it needs to change. Choice for … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 1 June 2023
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Why Parents Working Together Just Became Non-Negotiable
Our inadequate system for helping families to separate with dignity and at proportionate cost has come into ever-clearer focus with … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 February 2022
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Why Tax Matters…
You need to be able to pay when due and you can’t come to a fair settlement without understanding your … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 July 2023
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Why the Amicable Divorce Process Is Gaining National Attention
The amicable divorce process is transforming how couples separate, and it’s now receiving national media attention. In a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 2 October 2025
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Why The Divorce Surgery Created One Couple One Lawyer
Why we created One Couple One Lawyer was shaped by something we saw too often in family law: … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 10 April 2026
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Why The Way We Describe Family Lawyers Has To Change
Our co-founders Samantha and Harry have written an article (‘Less rottweiler, more golden retriever’) in the latest edition of Counsel … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 23 January 2023
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Why We All Need A Break
2020 has been an exhausting, relentless roller-coaster for us all. We all need a break, more than ever. If you … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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Will Marriage Story Spark A Debate About Family Justice?
Marriage Story, released recently on Netflix, is a compellingly accurate, often painful to watch, account of the fallout when a … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 21 September 2021
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Will My Former Spouse Have Any Claim Against My Inheritance?
We get asked about inheritances all the time. People often instinctively feel that inherited wealth should be left out of … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 March 2023
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Women And Equalities Committee Issues Report On Cohabitation Rights
The Women and Equalities Committee have issued a report on cohabitation rights, urging the Government to change the law to … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 11 August 2022
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Women Divorced in Later Life May Be Missing out on Substantial State Pensions
Tens of thousands of women who divorce later in life may be missing out on huge sums in state pension … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 15 September 2021
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Working Collaboratively To Provide Better Outcomes For Children
Our co-founder Samantha was delighted to be involved in a Children Law Roundtable event hosted by Tara Dunne, Legal Associate … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 25 September 2023
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‘Breadmaker’ Or ‘Homemaker’ - Does It Matter?
It sounds obvious, but it took until White v White in 2001 for the courts to spell out that discrimination … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 24 May 2023
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‘What Lies Behind The Statistics’ - The Nuffield Family Justice Observatory
The Nuffield Family Justice Observatory has launched a new Podcast Series, ‘What Lies Behind the Statistics’, produced by researchers in … Read More
Read more →Last reviewed: 14 February 2023