The amicable divorce process is transforming how couples separate, and it’s now receiving national media attention. In a recent Woman & Home feature titled Divorce Needn’t Mean Disaster, our co-founder Samantha Woodham spoke about how divorcing couples can avoid conflict and choose a more dignified path forward.

The article highlights a broader shift: many couples no longer want drawn-out court battles or adversarial legal exchanges. Instead, they are choosing to separate with mutual respect, guided by fair legal advice and a shared commitment to cooperation.

Sharing a Lawyer to Reduce Conflict

Samantha explained the benefits of the “One Couple One Lawyer” model, where a single impartial lawyer supports both parties through the legal process:

“By sharing a lawyer, you’re enabling each of you to have a voice but not an argument… You’re also likely to halve your legal costs.”

This approach gives couples a unified way to communicate their decision to family and friends, without fuelling conflict. As Samantha put it:

“We’re doing this together and sharing a lawyer, please don’t pick sides because we aren’t.”

Emotional and Financial Benefits

Choosing the amicable divorce process doesn’t mean avoiding difficult topics. It means facing them with structure, support, and a desire to find fair solutions.

From reducing legal costs to preserving relationships, the benefits are tangible. Emotionally, this approach helps couples move forward with less stress, especially when children are involved.

Moving Forward with Dignity

We’re proud to see the conversation around divorce evolving, and grateful to Woman & Home for spotlighting how the amicable approach is changing lives. The more we talk about respectful alternatives, the more we normalise them.

Read the full Woman & Home feature here